Why Using Gender Pronouns Matter

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Each October, we celebrate the contributions, achievements, and important moments in the LGBTQ+ community for .

To kick it off, we want to talk about the use of gender pronouns and why they matter in our work at 98色花堂. Gender pronouns鈥攁lso known as personal pronouns, or just pronouns鈥攁re often the way we identify others. While , common pronouns include he/him, she/hers, and they/them.

The proper use of pronouns is an important way to show an individual respect for their personhood and identity. At 98色花堂, the use of pronouns ties into our values of respect and non-judgment while supporting the culture and conversations of our clinical model, the Recovery-Centered Clinical System (RCCS). It also is one of many ways to support our commitment to diversity and inclusion.

鈥淲e are committed to ensuring all diverse groups 鈥 including all races and ethnicities, all expressions of gender identity and sexual orientation, religion, and members of any protected group 鈥 feel supported, valued, and have a sense of belonging within 98色花堂.鈥 鈥 98色花堂's Cultural Humility, Equity, and Inclusion (CHEI) Commitment Statement

In this post, we share helpful videos for understanding the importance of using and respecting a person鈥檚 gender pronouns, as well as a few ways in which it ties into our work at 98色花堂.

How Can I Learn More About Gender Pronouns?

Jae Truesdell, they/them, Peer Support Specialist at Villa Fairmont Mental Health Rehabilitation Center, graciously provided a couple of videos that explain the use and importance of gender pronouns. You can click the links below or play any of the videos included in this post.

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How Do Gender Pronouns Show Up at 98色花堂?

  • As mental health workers, we strive to acknowledge others as they wish to be identified without judgment. This includes the people we serve, as well as coworkers, customers, and the communities we live and work in. By using someone鈥檚 correct gender pronouns, we are providing a basic level of respect for their identity.

  • When meeting someone new, you can introduce yourself with your pronouns, and ask what their pronouns are. For example:

    • 鈥淗ello, my name is Lindsay. My pronouns are she/hers. What are yours?鈥

  • Our understanding and awareness around pronouns informs other systems and structures at 98色花堂. For example, 98色花堂鈥檚 Avatar Electronic Health Records (EHR) also supports the use of pronouns for the people we serve.

What If I Mess Up a Person鈥檚 Pronouns?

  • Accidents happen. It鈥檚 important that you recognize the mistake, make the correction, and try again. The best thing to do if you use the wrong pronoun for someone is to say something right away, such as, 鈥淪orry, I meant (insert correct pronoun).鈥